Archive for October, 2012
The weekend is over and it is back to YAWNS ….Monday again.
I am so sleepy especially when i am having Flu now, very irritated.
Anyway, i spent my Sunday at home, nursing the damn flu, packing up my house. I feel a sense of accomplishment after throwing 2 big trash bags of trash away.
The areas that i packed are now cleaner and tidier.
Of cos, whenever i pack, i usually look at all the stuff carefully before i decide to keep or to throw.
I was happy to go through a stack of cards and small gifts that do not cost alot but warms my heart.
I took pictures and made a list of items that i received from various people
These pressies bring a smile to my face 🙂
Here they are!
Super cute Birthday Card sent in 2012, from Daniel – Korea! The card is so cute although i dont know what it is written there. haha. But Korea and Japan, both countries have the nicest and cutest gifts and cards. I was delighted with surprise when i received this 5months ago!
Awwww. This is so CUTE. I am not a sucker for cute stuffs like Hello Kitty and etc (ok, maybe i dont even feel that Hello Kitty is cute, no offence to HK lovers but i kinda dislike how irritating it looks).
But this is just so cute!
From Chris and Jam, Chris bought this in Korea too.
This Xmas card was sent sometime ago. From Regine. She used to be my best friend but we kinda distant away but we do meet up occasionally. Miss those days which we hang out daily. 🙂
I am using this now, it is pretty. ok, maybe not this side of the keychain because it looks like some souvenir you get at pasar malam or bugis street. You might like it better, if you see this:
May it serves as a reminder for me because i find it hard to love people. Not exactly hard to love people, but it is very tedious and challenging to love the very nasty and irritating ones.
This Birthday card was sent 2 or 3 years ago, i cant really remember. But back then, the cell group is filled with faces that i do not really see now.
I shant be a hypocrite and say that i miss everyone in this card. There are a few of them, i am really FINE with not seeing them anymore.
I do miss the unity of the group, and yea, i miss 1 of the elder bros, Allan (the 1 that used the biggest space in this card).
I would like to thank him for being the medium/channel that God uses, to bring me to this wonderful church. I might not have learnt the valuable lessons in life if i didnt respond to your invitation to CHC 3years ago.
Hope that you will have a mind of your own (like you always have, since i know you..till recently) and come back soon.
My second birthcert. Enuff said.
I kept this candle for almost a year already.
I got this from the candle light service last year, during Xmas. I was sucha broken wretch during that period last year. Went through a year of mental and physical torture and abuse, as if thats not enough, i was actually begging for more. I wasnt even rational to walk away from that unhealthy r/s i had. I remember crying bitterly while holding the candle. OMG.
Looking back now, i feel embarrassed to even take a look at myself a year ago. Lol.
I am looking forward to the candlelight celebration this year!
I threw the candle away already because i want to look forward to the new candle this year!
So cute, the ang pows on wall. My mum stick them during CNY last year. I stick the Cross on yesterday. It was given by Seven.
Obviously, there are alot more priceless items/ gifts lying around my house. But here are the few that i snapped yesterday.
Took a few photos during work last week for our Hairy Crab Wine Pairing Event. Yumyum!
‘Lion Head’ – famous Chinese dish
If you are looking at somewhere elegantly decorated, somewhere really exclusive for your wedding (unlike your usual hotel ballrooms)
You may call me or PM me and i will be happy to assist you.
What are the chances of holding your wedding on the 53rd level, which is not easily and usually accessible by public?
This post is filled with nice pictures right?
Hope you like the post and have a fantastic week ahead, it is already halfway tru end of Monday!
It is a short week this week! Weee to PH this Friday! 😀
My friends say this picture look scary, actually i like it because its quite artistic to me leh. haha. Ok la, scary maybe, but it shows the different parts of the face, so i thought it is quite interesting. hurhur.
I am supposed to start on Lessons of Positivity soon.
But i really have no mood to write now.
I had a terrible week but i thank God HE is with me, carrying me through.
My mates have a terrible day yesterday because of some ungrateful woman.
Honestly, if i were to write the truth here, it will be full of angst so i rather save it than polluting readers’ minds.
All i can say is, Miss Tan, i hope you can rem what others did for you, helped you when you were a wretch, just like hw i remember you for your help to me when i was a wretch.
Please dont turn your back around with twisted verses and scriptures now, jsut because things dont go your way, is ok to blabber nonsense but it is wrong to insult in God’s name.
No1 is using HIS name in vain, in our group, so please stop your yakking, staining bible verses by quoting them in your twisted logics.
Yes, going to church doesnt make 1 a Christian, but a Christian will definitely go to Church.
Please stop judging my cell mates and wake up your idea dude.
Ok, do i sound angsty? I guess i am alittle angry over how ungrateful people can be, overnight.
Anyway, as i say, i myself experienced tremendous stress at work and i am not in the mood to write much yet.
Do not want to affect the ‘quality’ of the post.
I shall just camwhore and make myself happy! haha
I promise, i will be back soon to blog serious stuffs!
Is Friday, i am so not heading out but home after work. There is a Hairy Crab Wine Pairing Event for work, which also means, eat while Ot-ing. Yawns -_-
Have a Good Fri!
After so much unhappiness (from the Bus saga), i decided to let go and move on since i made my point across, any other opinions of whoever doesnt matter now.
Anyway, there isnt a reason good enough to be unhappy on a Friday!
I read the articles below and find them really interesting and worth reading. Thought of sharing with you guys!
Question: “Are we supposed to be actively looking for a spouse, or waiting for God to bring a spouse to us?”
Answer: The answer to both questions is “yes.” There is an important balance between the two. We are not to frantically search for a spouse as if it depends solely on our own efforts. Neither are we to be passive, thinking that God will one day cause a spouse to arrive at our door. As Christians, once we have decided that it is time to start looking for a spouse, we should begin the process with prayer. Committing ourselves to God’s will for our lives is the first step. “Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart” (Psalm 37:4). Delighting in the Lord means we find pleasure in knowing Him and trusting that He will delight us in return. He will put His desires into our hearts, and in the context of seeking a spouse, that means desiring for ourselves the type of spouse He desires for us and who He knows will delight us further. Proverbs 3:6 tells us, “In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.” Acknowledging Him in the search for a spouse means submitting to His sovereign will and telling Him that whatever He decides is best is what you want.
After committing ourselves to God’s will, we need to be clear on the characteristics of a godly husband or wife and be seeking someone who qualifies on a spiritual level. It is important to have a clear understanding of these qualities first and then to seek someone who fits them. To “fall in love” with someone and then discover he/she is not spiritually qualified to be our mate is to invite heartache and put ourselves in a very difficult position.
Once we know what the Bible says we should be looking for, we can begin actively looking for a spouse, understanding that God will bring him/her into our lives as we are in the process of looking, according to His perfect will and timing. If we pray, God will lead us to the person He has for us. If we wait for His timing, we will be given the person who fits best with our background, personality, and desires. We have to trust in Him and His timing (Proverbs 3:5), even when His timing is not our timing. Sometimes God calls people not to marry at all (1 Corinthians 7), but in those situations, He makes it clear by removing the desire for marriage. God’s timing is perfect, and with faith and patience, we will receive His promises (Hebrews 6:12).
Question: “What is the Christian view of engagement?”
Answer: In the Bible, there were three steps the Jewish people had to take when getting married. The families first had to agree to the union, and then a public announcement was made. At this point, the couple was betrothed, or engaged. Finally, they were officially married and began to live together. Betrothal, then, was somewhat similar to what we call engagement now, except that our society does not honor the seriousness of engagement as they did then. When a Jewish couple was betrothed during Bible times, they were already bound together by a contract that could only be broken through death or divorce.
Any Christian who is considering marriage needs to realize the depth of this kind of commitment and not jump into it lightly. God intends marriage to be a lifelong commitment, not a temporary arrangement. The Bible says this about marriage: “‘This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.’ Since they are no longer two but one, let no one separate them, for God has joined them together” (Mark 10:7-9, NLT).
Christians need to make sure they have a clear understanding of the person they may marry before becoming engaged. The Bible says that Christians cannot team up with and live in harmony with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14-15). A Christian teaming up with an unbeliever almost guarantees that the Christian will be pulled away from Christ because, as the Bible says, “bad company corrupts good character” (1 Corinthians 15:33). The only way to have a God-honoring, stable foundation for a marriage is to be firmly grounded in one’s faith and make sure that the potential partner is equally dedicated to God.
Christians should live their lives with God in the driver’s seat, so to speak. He wants to be a part of every aspect of our lives, including whom we marry. Having a clear understanding of God’s Word and developing a personal relationship with Him through prayer and yielding to the direction of the Holy Spirit is the first and most important step in determining His will for us. The world’s advice on dating and engagement should only be considered in light of God’s truths in Scripture. If we seek His will in all we do, He will direct our paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Question: “What does the Bible say about dating / courting?”
Answer: Although the words “courtship” and “dating” are not found in the Bible, we are given some principles that Christians are to go by during the time before marriage. The first is that we must separate from the world’s view on dating because God’s way contradicts the world’s (2 Peter 2:20). While the world’s view may be to date around as much as we want, the important thing is to discover the character of a person before making any commitment to him or her. We should find out if the person has been born again in the Spirit of Christ (John 3:3-8) and if he or she shares the same desire toward Christ-likeness (Philippians 2:5). The ultimate goal of dating or courting is finding a life partner. The Bible tells us that, as Christians, we should not marry an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14-15) because this would weaken our relationship with Christ and compromise our morals and standards.
When one is in a committed relationship, whether dating or courting, it is important to remember to love the Lord above all else (Matthew 10:37). To say or believe that another person is “everything” or the most important thing in one’s life is idolatry, which is sin (Galatians 5:20; Colossians 3:5). Also, we are not to defile our bodies by having premarital sex (1 Corinthians 6:9, 13; 2 Timothy 2:22). Sexual immorality is a sin not only against God but against our own bodies (1 Corinthians 6:18). It is important to love and honor others as we love ourselves (Romans 12:9-10), and this is certainly true for a courtship or dating relationship. Whether dating or courting, following these biblical principles is the best way to have a secure foundation for a marriage. It is one of the most important decisions we will ever make, because when two people marry, they cleave to one another and become one flesh in a relationship which God intended to be permanent and unbreakable (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:5).
Question: “What should I look for in a Christian boyfriend?”
Answer: Anybody can say they love Jesus, or that they’re a Christian. But how do you know, when you’re falling in love with someone, whether they are the real deal? The Bible doesn’t mention the kind of dating relationships we see today; in fact, the only romantic relationships portrayed are either marriage relationships or adulterous relationships. What this means is that a Christian boyfriend should be, first and foremost, a man you plan to marry or at least someone who would make a good Christian husband. A Christian woman should be looking for someone who is serious about God and serious about his relationship with her. A Christian boyfriend isn’t dating just for fun; he has marriage in mind.
The Bible is full of verses that describe what a Christian man should be like, verses that are helpful and trustworthy for a woman who is evaluating a potential husband. The following are some guidelines based on those verses. A Christian boyfriend should be:
Humble and teachable: The Bible tells us that a righteous man, or a wise man, will take instruction gladly, even when it hurts him (Psalm 141:5; Proverbs 9:9, 12:15). A righteous man evidences a willingness to be corrected by Scripture and a tendency to love and listen to those who can teach him from the Scripture.
Honest: Do his actions agree with his words? The Bible says that a righteous man is characterized by honesty in his personal and business dealings (Ephesians 4:28). In addition, when he makes a promise, a Christian man keeps his promise, even when it hurts (Psalm 15:2-5). In short, his character should be one of integrity.
Selfless: The Bible speaks specifically to husbands when it tells them to love their wives as they love their own bodies, just like Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25-28). A Christian boyfriend should begin to exhibit this kind of care and love for his girlfriend long before marriage. Love is easy in the romantic beginning stages, but a Christian boyfriend should be the kind of man whose behavior and intentions will be loving in all kinds of circumstances (1 John 3:18).
Able and willing to provide: The Bible says that a man who doesn’t provide for his family is worse than an unbeliever (1 Timothy 5:8). Provision doesn’t necessarily mean “bringing in a lot of money.” The issue is whether he takes responsibility for the welfare of his wife and children. It is important for women to grasp the seriousness of this verse. A man that doesn’t want to provide is very hard for a woman to respect, and if a wife struggles to respect her husband, marital troubles will go beyond the material. A woman’s respect for her husband and a man’s love for his wife are interdependent and life-giving to a marriage (Ephesians 5:25-32).
Willing to proactively protect: Both physically and emotionally, women tend to be weaker and more easily hurt than men. They need to be understood and protected and cared for in a proactive way. A good Christian boyfriend is a man who will look out for and care for his girlfriend and carry this passion for protecting her on into marriage (1 Peter 3:7).
Also, here are some negative things to watch out for: materialism (1 John 2:15-16; 1 Timothy 6:10), lying (Proverbs 12:22,19:22), sexual unfaithfulness (Ecclesiastes 7:26; Proverbs 7) and poor treatment of family members, especially his mother (Proverbs 15:20, 19:26, 20:20, 23:22). Usually a man’s treatment of his mother is a good indication of how he will treat his wife. Also, watch out for irrationally, controlling or jealous tendencies, as these often lead to violence (Proverbs 6:34; 27:4).
Finally, a Christian boyfriend is one with whom a woman is evenly matched. First, in the spiritual sense – a couple’s relationship with God should be the primary factor in any relationship, and they should be matched in that regard. Believers are commanded to marry other believers (2 Corinthians 6:14), so there is no reason to be dating an unbeliever. But a couple should also be evenly matched in the more practical aspects, having compatible temperaments, similar energy levels, and shared life-goals and interests. These things add tremendously to happiness in a relationship.
In addition to all this, if a man has a good sense of humor and a steady, cheerful disposition, this is wonderfully encouraging for his wife. Nobody can be “up” all the time, but a man who is characterized by the peace and joy of the Spirit is a real catch. Life is hard, and marriage is hard too. There will be times of sadness and there will be conflict. Because of this, a cheerful, encouraging spouse is a real blessing (Proverbs 16:24; 17:22; 15:30).
Credits to http://www.gotquestions.org/ for the above articles.
I personally find the articles helpful, hope you njoy reading them too! 🙂
其实要的不多 但是谁都没给过 对的温柔 对的承诺
其实有话不说 但不代表你不懂 眼泪总是背对人流
还要伤几次才够 到底要等到什么时候 坏人我来作
其实有话不说 但不代表我不懂 你流得泪我疼我懂
还要伤几次才够 到底要等到什么时候 坏人我来作
还记得 他多晚回来你都等待 假装爱还在
要记得 倔强就是你的可爱 你没有错是他不应该
I love this song.
I love the lyrics, make perfect sense of a woman.
I love this mv, i dun particularly like this dude but he looks ok la, and the female lead is GORGEOUS!
I love the effects and resolution of the mv.
Honestly, every woman has their fair share of meeting the wrong ones or the crappy ones.
Every woman just need someone loyal to appreciate her.
I feel any woman can relate to this song.
I have nothing much to write today. I cant possibly update my blog daily because i will run out of stuffs to write in no time!
Haha, anyway, i just want to update for Gary Tho and you will know why.
And, to add, see how closely knitted we are, updates from GaryTho in Insta and i am receiving whatsapp from Seven above the Insta update. Haha!
I wish today can fly pass quickly,