This is not Independence
honestly, i am really pissed off.
Look, i dont think you can read this and i dont think u would read this even if i text you to.
But i hope you read this.
I do not think this spell independence. Not at all.
It is your 30th birthday celebration, you yourself wanted this mega crazy expensive extravagant party. YET you complain non stop to me about how expensive it is.
I mean…hello… i have been tolerating your whines, i know it is a 1 in a lifetime thing. I know it is not cheap, i know right?
But since you already decided to do it, why do you whine so much? Is either you DO IT OR DONT DO IT.
I spend a few K on myself, i def felt the pinch. But i dont bitch all day long about it cos i know i wanted it. I needed to spend that amount on myself. It is exp but i am prepared to spend it. So i did and i never whine about it.
Since no matter what i said-about saving the $, doesnt really help, then i assume you really Need to do this lah, so why are you whinning about how expensive it is?
Then, i told you also, if you have to spend the $ to come back from all the way from France to Sg (after spending a bomb for that impressive bday party), i rather you save the $ and come back other time.
You said that it is a present for yourself.
Ok fine, then u complaint non stop about the cost. I am like…-_-. WTH?
I am not a Saint, as much as i want to have grace for you, really, i cant take it anymore.
Multiple times of arguing with me, with all your female friends. Whether we are wrong or NOT (usually not), you have to win the fight. You need to make sure you win.
If you like someone and someone doesnt like you back, you flare like how you did towards me.
If you make your point and someone doesnt go along with ur idea, you show me you nasty shitty gangster side of you.
Please. There are countless eg. and i have advised you to be a Gentleman and apologise to that female fren you had a fight with.
You refused and you bitched to me about her. CONSTANTLY.
I mean, cmon, you are a MAN. Dont be a Man by birth only (if you get what i mean).
Whenever you needed or wanted help, i try my best to help, each n everytime. With NO expectations, i dont need you to thank me, really. i dont.
Now, after the various quarrels and God knows hw many times…we always manage to patch things up. But i am very sick of your childish crapz.
I mean, whats the point of celebrating 30 yr old bday when you dont behave you are 30?
The Ultimatum.
You texted me non stop for help for your songlist to be played during your bday party. you wanted 4 titles i gave you 12. 3 TIMES of what you asked.
You whine about how people are not helping you AGAIN.
So fine, is just song titles, fine, i help, is really just titles.
But for God sake, y are you so dependent on friends, on people?
If you wanted this party, you wanted this party. Not your frens, they didnt ASK YOU to celebrate your bday this way i am very sure.
I am very sure they find your idea of clubbing in a bus entertaining, but i dont believe they insist of partying in the bus like you do. Besides, it is YOUR bday party, i dont think they insist on celebrating that way.
In fact, you were the one Insisting on Spending That Much, Yet you complain it is expensive, you were the one Insisting of doing this, Yet you complain nobody is helping you.
I have to say, your friends suck, like what you agreed. They suck. True frens wud jump to lend their hands to help. I myself have sucky friends that do not help out with events but just show up to enjoy.
But if none of your friend bother, i really think your friends suck, sorry friends of Glenn.
However, you DONT EXPECT people to help you because NOBODY is obligated to. cmon, you are supposed to be 30. Dont you know that NO1 is obligated to help you?
Jsut like my previous post, i was bitter that i help people tt needs my help but was sad that the same people i helped, refused to help me when i needed help.
Yes i feel sad, i blogged about it. I let it go.
You mention and complain non stop omg.
As if thats not enough, the way you DEMAND, yes you DEMANDED me to help. As if i owe you.
The way you DEMANDED is a total turn off. When i say i am busy, you asked me if i will b bz till next week? I mean, cmon? I am really bz and thats not an excuse, however, i was about to reply you that i will help till i see how u demand me to do it.
I am not your slave hello? Even if all your other frens suck, you cant expect me to make up for their mistakes ok?
Then, i tot, nvm, i shld stop being angry and have grace. So i thought, yes i will help you, but is better to teach you how to dl those songs you need, so in future, you do not need to rely on any1.
I am not lazy to help u, i just tot it will be good if you can do it urself since it is so simple, so you do not nd to wait for anyone to do it for you.
You cut me off and kp asking me if i can do it, if i can do it and it repeated..
I was totally disgusted. Cmon, are you a man or what? Why are you always behaving like that?
I mean, i am not saying you are a lousy person, i am not saying you should die or rot or wadever. But why are you always lidat?
I told you to be more independent because it is really very rude to cut ppl up when people is teaching you how to do it? Instead of learning, you shut me up?
That is not independence to me Glenn, sorry. Not even after you emphasize that you stay alone and started your own business.
If you cant even learn to stop blaming others, and if you cant handle the fact that you cant learn downloading songs urself (because u dont listen to me teach), you are not independent.
I am really shocked at how petty you can get, towards my comment of you being dependent. But sorry, i cant say otherwise because you really are not independent in my eyes.
If you want to unfriend me due to what you made me feel, i cant do anyting AT ALL.
I have ntg against you, afterall, we are frens for over a decade but i cant stand it, really.
You can choose to NOT be a Gentleman, Fine.
but please dont behave like a spoilt brat to me. I wont and i cant take it.
